What Does Family and the Concept of “Family Ties” Mean to Me?

Focusing on the lives of queer folx within the context of family structure extends past the limitations of traditional sociological research that often centers heteronormative families. Focusing on non-normative family structures is one way of expanding this research on family structure; remembering that even same-sex marriage and other “rights” extended to queer folx like adoption and the “right” to serve in the military are, at their core, normative ideals (called homonormativity or homonormative pragmatism). Family structures, for queer folx, can vary widely and may include same-sex couples, polyamorous arrangements, or other non-traditional configurations. Accounting for diverse family structures allows us to understand the full spectrum of their experiences. Furthermore, intersectionality and identity formation for queer folx, who must navigate multiple dimensions of identity, including race, ethnicity, religion, and gender, problematizes traditional family research that tends to overlook the intersectionality of these identities and how they include or exclude (intentionally and unintentionally) family structures, in spite of McPherson’s hypotheses. Challenges in legal and social recognition of LGBTQIA+ relationships and families varies globally and within different cultural contexts, as we see in Dewaele. Many queer folx face challenges related to societal acceptance (regardless of legal acceptance of gay marriage, adoption, or military service). Investigating these challenges with family structures and how these factors shape experiences holds significant promise for illuminating the impact of structural constraints on their lives. A research project that delves into the quotidian experiences of gay people, with a specific emphasis on the role of food and shared meals, has the potential to unveil profound insights into the relationships they cultivate. By exploring these dimensions, the research aims to foster a more comprehensive and inclusive understanding of family dynamics and linked lives within the queer community, one which includes—at last—chosen families.